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Richard Rosenblum's avatar

Dan and Elliott,

Tears are on my cheeks as I write this. Just like millions of Americans I have suffered the loss of someone who made a difference in my life.

My father worked as Head Usher at the NY Paramount theater in the late 1940's while he was going to Podiatry School. He knew all the great crooners, and in fact, hired Vic Damone to be an usher there. He and Vic remained friends for decades. My dad's love of these iconic artists was instilled in the hearts of my siblings and myself. We had many long car rides shortened by singing these songs.

Many years later, I had the privilege of sitting across the aisle from Tony on a flight to Brazil. I was reluctant to even speak to him and invade his personal space. It was Tony who reached out to me by asking questions about the purpose of my trip, my family, and my preferences for music. I was able to tell him how much his music had influenced my musical tastes. Halfway through our long flight, Tony got up, walked back into the Coach section of the plane, and just shook hands and greeted everyone. He made each person feel special, and created for them memories that will never fade.

While I love the songs you selected, my top Tony Bennett tunes are different:

1. The Very Thought of You

2. The Way You Look Tonight

3. It Had To Be You

4. For Once In My Life

CNN had a wonderful recap of his life. Anderson Cooper spent a lot of time with Tony in his final years. The power of his music was evident when, suffering from Alheizmer's and having lost his ability for short term memory, Tony only needed to hear one or two notes and could recall the lyrics and perform one of his songs.

The world is poorer today for his loss, but heaven is benefitting from his Angelic voice. The best word to describe Tony is to say he was "gentle." He was gentle with his voice, with his thoughts, with his love and with his fans around the world.

As we say in the Jewish Faith: BDE (Baruch Dayan Emmes - G-d Is the Ultimate Truth)!

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hcmBoston's avatar

One doesn't have to be a "fan" to appreciate Tony Bennett's talent and longevity. But, he was so much more than that. He was a mensch. He loved people, appreciated them and let them know it. Bennett's humanity defined him. He will be sorely missed.

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