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Meg's avatar

I sat down and cried tears of relief when the Arbery verdict came down. I cried more when I listened to his mother's comments after the trial and her faith that justice would be done for her son if she fought for it. And she did. Your essay reflects the issues we still face with systemic racism in America. Part of the justice in this case will be holding prosecutors and other legal and judicial officials who tried to bury this murder accountable for their actions. I look forward to these three defendants facing federal charges for the murder that they have committed. Americans need to see consequences for criminal actions especially ones like this murder which was barbaric and totally unnecessary. I'm not sure that this conviction brought me a sense of justice, but it is a beginning for accountability. The point you make about people seeing and accepting the same set of facts and then being willing to discuss those truths and come to a reasonable conclusion about them is one of the integral processes missing today in America. The line between fact and opinion is blurred every day in the media and in political world. Lies are too often accepted as truth. We have a long way to go to get ourselves back on course. This guilty verdict is a start.

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Beth M's avatar

There is another option for a “place in America where people of different backgrounds who might never cross paths otherwise, who might live in completely separate worlds, have to talk to each other and hear what others have to say…where everyone has heard the same things and brings their head and heart into the discussion…where you have no choice but to engage… to listen and to speak”.

What you have written here should be the model and the goal for all schools everywhere.

Imagine a place where facts are presented, ample time is given for reflection and the development of a point of view that is representative of each person’s unique history and perspective and thoughtful discourse ensues. Imagine a place where each POV is considered and discussed respectfully and then put in its rightful place.

This doesn’t mean we have to accept a POV that is abhorrent to us. It means we have to know it fully before we choose a different one.

Why is it that we are so insecure in our thoughts and opinions that we fear knowing fully those of others? As a people, do we have so little courage of our convictions? PS - I include myself in this questioning as an enthusiastic rose-colored glasses wearing, head in the sand bubble dweller.

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